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Your baby's primary father is always your birth support partner. They could be your wife's current partner or co-owner. Another close friend. A sister, or another close friend. You can also have someone, other than your wife, who is in a loving relationship with your wife and would be willing to help you during your pregnancy and birth.

If you feel that you need professional support, don't just go to your local hospital. Go online first, where you will find many websites offering doula support services. Do a quick internet search for doula resources and birth outcomes on your own home page or any page that you choose. Learn everything. Ask questions Postpartum.

Be specific about your situation. Do you plan to go into labor naturally? Or via C-section. If you are having C section, a nurse may be required to accompany you. While this is a valid reason to have a midwife present, there are many birth support doulas that can work without a C section birth. In this case, they may need a birth attendant.

One birth support person can't do it all. It doesn't matter how many Birth Support people you have, it does not mean you will have an easier job. Even if everyone agrees, there are always going to be challenges. Your spouse or your midwife might not be available the entire time. They might like a couple of hours at the end of the day to just help relieve some of the pressure. It is possible for two Birth Support professionals to work together, and they might try to add to it instead of taking away.

Another thing to keep in mind is that there is no right way to give birth. Each person is unique and has their own experience, pace, and method. Don't compare your birth support person with another. Focus on the fact that they are helping you through this scary time in your life. If they are giving you medical advice, then that is great! They should never be told by you that you are not interested in becoming pregnant, or that your doctor does NOT believe this is a good time.

If you have a plan for birth with a maternity team, let them know that your spouse will be absent during your time off. If your partner is a wonderful person and incredibly understanding, they will understand why you need a break. It is perfectly fine for your partner to come along for your first few days after the birth, just as long as he or she is not expected to help with any labor, feeding, or changing diapers.

Don't forget to doula attend. Doulas will be present during labor and after birth. However, if you are worried about pain or infection, you may want to avoid having a doula in the room until after your labor begins. The doula will help you to feel calm if you feel like you are close to giving birth or experiencing contractions. She can also provide medical support if you need it. Your doula may want to be there in case of an emergency, such as a Braxton Hicks contracture (breast infection) or other similar circumstances.

Your family and your soul will be your best friends during labor and postpartum. You should not cut corners when it comes time to prepare for your new family member. Your doula can help you with anything you need. You must listen to what they have to say. Talk to your doula before you make your birth plan. Make sure she is included in all decisions.